When a sensible choice does not sit right
The situation An INTJ is choosing a new car, and one model is clearly the best value. Looking for what is true in outside evidence (Te) is the INTJ's careful Parent, while holding to personal values (Fi) is the Child, and it may still say the choice feels wrong.
What may be behind it The Child is sincere and quick to trust itself; the Parent asks for proof. When they disagree, the pull is to let the louder voice win without hearing the other.
A thought to take with you Evidence and values both get a vote, and the disagreement between them is useful information.
Closer look
An INTJ is choosing a new car, and one model is clearly the best value. Looking for what is true in outside evidence (Te) is the INTJ's careful Parent, while holding to personal values (Fi) is the Child, and it may still say the choice feels wrong.
The Child is sincere and quick to trust itself; the Parent asks for proof. When they disagree, the pull is to let the louder voice win without hearing the other.
Evidence and values both get a vote, and the disagreement between them is useful information. Sometimes the sound option can be chosen in a way the INTJ respects; sometimes the value deserves the final word.





